You’re ready and all prepared for that highly anticipated family vacation and you know you have everything on your checklist. You have managed to bring all of the necessary items like pre-packed snacks, extra sets of clothes, wipes and diapers and you have just passed security without any issues. Now, you’ve boarded your plane and stashed your carry-ons away. Your child(ren) start fidgeting with the seat belts and arm rests and you slowly realize that this is where your patience will truly be tested. As you
Fly during nap time
This may not be the most affordable, but if you are on a longer haul flight, it is recommended that you try to schedule a flight during your child’s nap time. If you can coordinate an agreeable time, at least you only have to deal with half of the flight.
Give them expectations
No one likes to be put in a situation where they do not know what going on, and that includes your little people. I bought several books about airplanes and flying to read to them at night a couple days before the trip. This helped him understand what an airport is and how cool it is to fly in an airplane. We brought the book on the day of our flight, and he was so excited to follow the book as we went through the daily routine.
Burn excess energy before the flight
Have you ever seen your child sit still because if you have, please tell me your secret. As for the thousands of parents who haven’t, well don’t hold your breath. Kids are full of energy and they can’t help but let it out. Plan to arrive to the airport early so you kids can adjust. Have them help push the carts, go up escalators and if available, in the play areas. The more energy they burn, the more sanity you will have when you arrive at your final destination.
Be first or last
This next tip is debatable and I have spoken to a few parents who listed the pros of cons of each. If you board first, you’ll be able to board the plane without waiting and can put your carry-ons without fighting for space. If you decide to board last, your child will have less time be cooped up on a plane. Decide what works for you and your family.
Eat snacks at take-off and landings
I see a lot of parents miss this one, but it can save you some tears. Eating snacks during landing and take-offs help with the changing of air pressure.
Grab some coloring books or toys
Head down to Target or the Dollar Store and grab some quick toys or coloring books to brign with your on the flight. Having activities for them will help break up the time. I normally try to bring flash cards, stickers and games to preoccupy their time.
Flight attendants can be your friend
Get friendly with our flight attendant as soon as your board and they can save you a ton of stress. Talk to them early and you can have them bring snacks drinks early to avoid a meltdown. If the flight isn’t too full, sometimes they even take them up and down the airplane and show them all of the cool gadgets.
Bring a scarf
Planes are usually cold, so it’s smart to bring something to cover your child in case they get chilly. It also helps to wipe up messes quickly. Sorry Mom – it’s had to be prepared and chic at the same time.
Go, go, gadgets
As much as we hate giving up our gadgets, if you need a few minutes (sometime more, who’s counting) it’s okay to hand them a brief stint on the phone. Try to download interactive apps that can help them read, count or even o simple math problems.
Keep calm and just go with it
Let’s be honest, no matter how much you prepare, there is always a chance of a meltdown. You tried to be as considerate as possible, but some things are just meant to be. Just take a deep breath and rest assured that this flight is only getting shorter. Relax and enjoy the ride.